Fiqh of Marriage

My husband went to America for business meeting for 2 weeks.when he came back randomly I was seeing his phone .I saw his chat with a head of prostitutes and to go there.When I asked him he said I was sleepy and talked..but accepted that didn’t do anything bad.and begged for forgiveness.and promised.and from then he stared going there more often.should I believe him or tell my parents about it?

Fiqh of Marriage

31 Mar

ANSWER: You had no right in spying on him like this. If you want to end your marriage, you can talk to your parents or anyone else. However, this is considered slandering and in Islam you should be flogged 80 lashes for failing to bring 4 male muslim witnesses testifying that he was committing adultery.

I liked a girl and approached to her parents. They accepted me and ready to give her daughter in my nikah. I’m a daee and they liked my religious attitude. My parents delaying the marriage because i habe 2 elder sister and they are unmarried. What should i do? Wait or ge5 married before my sisters.

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

28 Mar

ANSWER: No need to wait for them to get married. If you are financially independent, go ahead and get married with or without your parents.

At times I visit some other city, or few times it happened that I visited to Madina and was in a hotel near to Masjid Nabvi. Me and my wife came close to each other, but in the middle I hear the loud Azan and I instantly stop for a while till Azan completes. Now my question is what should we do in such situation if it ever happen or if we couldnt separate in emotions?R v si

Fiqh of Marriage, Manners

28 Mar

ANSWER: No problem in having intimacy with your wife when athan is going on.

Married 1st cousin,spouse always looks for my siblings sins and backbites them to me, then tells me not to tell anyone, to keep the secrets that he has found out about my siblings, such as the haraam things they are doing. How to deal with this?

Backbiting, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

28 Mar

ANSWER: You must remind him that backbiting is a major sin and leave his company until he speaks of something else if he doesn’t stop.

Sheikh If a wife is trying her best to obey her husband,always trying to do what he likes, appreciating him but d husband is always shouting and complaining,never over looking a small mistake but she remains patient and continue trying. Will she be sinful because her husband is not satisfied?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

27 Mar

ANSWER: If she’s doing her best yet he’s not satisfied, she’s not sinful. Allah will reward her for her patience and will punish him for his ingratitude.

I’m not interested in having a baby right now as I’m studying. My husband has agreed to it. I’ve been having OCP for 1 year which is making me sick. Doctor’s advised me to substitute OCP with a condom as. I’ve stopped taking OCP. But I can’t trust condoms as they may rupture anytime; as me & my 2 elders were born accidentally from our parents with ruptured condoms. I’m prevent him for few months?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

27 Mar

ANSWER: This is not permissible for you to delay giving him his rights in bed! Refusing him means that the angels curse you every night till the break of dawn! What life is this for a husband who can’t get his rights because his wife wants to study?

If my husband is shouting on my mother in law in front of me with words like, “use your brain otherwise don’t irritate me, you are brainless and so our maternal relatives”, as his wife, what should i do? And if i don’t say anything because of the fear that my husband might fight with me, am i wrong? Please help.

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family

26 Mar

ANSWER: You must not say a word and simply not be in the same place and when he is in a good mood, talk about the major sin of being disrespectful to parents without taking his name, with diplomacy, wisdom and knowledge.

Sheikh I want to know whether in islam is only the husband allowed to get angry and burst out n shout at wife or the wife is also allowed to express her anger whenever he is wrong? Because I feel I am not allowed to be angry at all, even if I try he asks me watch my tone n behave, how is this fair sheikh?

Character and Morals, Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

24 Mar

ANSWER: The husband has great rights over his wife as the prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam has said: if I were to order someone to prostrate to another, I would have ordered a woman to prostrate to her husband! The same way that he is not allowed to raise his voice in front of […]

Does this mean that he is cursed, and ALLAH will not look at him and that he is a kafir? – how should someone repent? Should he say that sahadatayn and repent. Please answer me i am very confused (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “The one who has intercourse with his wife in her back passage has disavowed himself of that which was revealed to Muhammad (peace and ble

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

22 Mar

ANSWER: His has committed minor kufr. If he repents and shows remorse, Allah will forgive him.

Is it compulsory for a wife to obey each and every order of her husband? Because my husband wants me to listen to every single thing and says that it is compulsory or I will be sinful

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

22 Mar

ANSWER: A wife is not a slave! She is not obliged to obey the husband in everything he tells her unless it is related to his rights as a husband such as in the way she looks etc. If he tells her to stand and not to sit, she is not obliged to obey him!

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