Pre-Marital Relations

Sheikh a boy did wrong to me he promised me he swore by the name Allah he recited kalma and said he will do nikah with me if i talk with him but he Betrayed me hurted me.. And now he is careless and he said he loves me but he’ll not do nikah with me.. Sheikh i forgave him but i want that Allah do him with same he did to me.. Will it happen?

26 Nov

ANSWER: Forget about Allah punishing him or not. Worry about your own self as what you have done by having this affair is totally wrong and sinful. This kind of relationship is absolutely prohibited in islam and you’re sinful for continuing this. If you don’t want Allah’s wrath on you in this dunya and the […]

I am 24 years of age and divorced.. Alhumdulliah I want to marry again.I have an issue concerning my father as he is under influence of bad things and his family won’t help me.alhumdulliah have made the decison to marry again as I want and need to protect myself and the guy I want to marry from going further into Zina.. We both have made the decison that we want to marry..

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

11 Nov

ANSWER: What is your question? This kind of relationship is absolutely prohibited in islam and you’re sinful for continuing this. If you don’t want Allah’s wrath on you in this dunya and the hereafter and if you want Allah to pardon you, you must immediately stop all communication with him immediately and block him from […]

Is it permissible for a boy who has fell in love with a girl to tell about this to his mother or father , so that he can convince them to let him marry her or get some advice to cure the love sickness, if it is impossible to get married. I have read in some books of scholars that they have told to conceal the love and not to tell to anyone. O Shaykh please clarify this!

Pre-Marital Relations, Sins

22 Oct

ANSWER: One must conceal his sins. However, telling them that you like a girl and that you want to marry her, there is no sin in this.

When a brother has a sister who lives in her own place, who isnt practising and thinks its okay to be alone with a man despite advice from her brother and family. Should the brother be in the presence of his sister as much as he can, when the sister is alone with the man? What else should her brother do to express protective jealousy? Thanks

Pre-Marital Relations

12 Oct

ANSWER: What she is doing is haram. He is not mahram to her hence she should not communicate with him. If she is not listening to you then you should involve your parents before something extreme happens. If your parents are not willing to interfere, being with them doesn’t seem to work all the time […]

IF a boy loved a girl and used to look at her, and then repented from that. But after that he saw some dream which saddens him, and the girl lives near his house. But the boy now lowers his gaze and does not look at the girl. But his heart is burning and he cannot forget the girl. Can you give some ways to remove the love of this girl and forget her ? Please give some effective means.

Pre-Marital Relations

02 Jul

ANSWER: He should fear Allah and should remind himself that all this is not allowed in Islam and be grateful that he was guided before falling into more sins. If he is mature enough, he should talk to his parents about marrying that girl if she is a practicing Muslim. If he is unable to […]

Sir I know talking to girls for no reason is sinful and I am trying to get rid of this problem but if I talk to some girl who normally talks to me and she disrespects me in return while she could politely refuse to talk or tell she is not interested for whatever reason, isn’t she also sinful for rebuking and disrespecting with harsh words

Pre-Marital Relations

30 Jun

ANSWER: Who cares? You are sinning by talking to her! You deserve this.

one of my friend was involved with a guy for 1 year.they used to talk over phone go outing goes for movies,nothing else. bt now she truly repented for her sins and ask Allah for forgiveness and stop all contact with that guy and ready to marry according to the choice of her parents. bt she is afraid as the consequence of her sin is it possible that her would be husband can be a characterless man?

Pre-Marital Relations

27 Jun

ANSWER: No, if her repentance was sincere, Allah will forgive her; her sins do not impact her future husband. She must repent and think positively of Allah and must never tell a soul about this after repenting.

I am married since 6 yrs with 2 children.Before marriage I used to love a guy. I said my parents about him bt they never accepted for marriage. Now I am married to another one which my parents found for me,my husband is very nice person. I respect him alot. I cannot feel love I tried.it’s compromise for me. I always ask forgivness from Allah.He is still in my heart plz help, want peace in my life.

Pre-Marital Relations, Sins

08 Jun

ANSWER: Such feelings are inflicted from Shaytan who wants you to go into haram again and you must fight and ignore this. You must repent to Allah while showing deep remorse and sincerity as premarital relationships are haram in Islam! You must be grateful for what Allah chose for you. Being ungrateful for what you […]

Can I pray to Allah to shower some lover in her heart ( whom I saw ) for me I saw someone and I want to marry her so I’m praying to Allah to make me get married to her As well as can I pray to Allah that she should Start loving me in her heart for. Because I like her

Pre-Marital Relations

03 Jun

ANSWER: I don’t know about the circumstances and whether such an attraction is halal or haram as it seems that you are looking at her while you are ordered to lower your gaze and it also seems that you are interested in chitchatting and may be dating her for a starter! This is totally prohibited.

I’m 17 years old and i’m in relationship with a girl…..now the relationship is haram how can i make this relationship halal?? And how can i advice my parents regarding her??

Pre-Marital Relations

07 May

ANSWER: The only way to make this relation halal, is to marry her. You both first need to cut all relationships and communications, repent, show remorse and ask Allan for forgiveness. If you can’t marry her, you must cut all communications and fast until you are able to marry her or anyone else.

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