Pre-Marital Relations

I realised that i m in a haram relationship with my gf and impossible to make it halal cause of my family so i told him not to do so…we both love each other too much but now i decided to end it up and she is hurted too much crying and as i know to break someone’s heart is qabira sin so what should i do will i face the azab of that sin Plzz answer me

22 Dec

ANSWER: Stop all communication with the girl and repent and Ask for Allah’s forgiveness. The sin is in maintaining such a haram relationship, not in breaking it off or in making someone cry because you stopped doing haram! If she is muslim and you both repent to Allah sincerely, you can marry her if her […]

Is it permissible to get to know the person you wish to marry?

Pre-Marital Relations

13 Dec

ANSWER: This is called dating and it is not permissible in Islam.

Is it fornication to be friends with the opposite gender if you start to develop feelings for the opposite gender and make jokes and be friends?

Pre-Marital Relations, Sins

07 Dec

ANSWER: This is not fornication but this is prohibited and sinful and would eventually lead to fornication.

Please what is the Islamic ruling on courtship? The lady insist on not talking to the man as she has no intention of marrying him,and he insists she should give him chance to see if he can win her heart…is that allowed?

Engagement, Pre-Marital Relations

11 Nov

ANSWER: There’s no concept of courtship in Islam, none whatsoever! Dating is haram and the man can only see and talk to a girl in the first meeting after he proposes to her father and he agrees, when he goes to see her for marrying, in the presence of her wali, that is it.

Sheikh, I am currently endgaged to a Qari and Hafiz-e-Quran but I don’t think that I deserve to be married to him because I have committed Zina many times. Any advice for me?

Fiqh of Marriage, Pre-Marital Relations

29 Oct

ANSWER: As long as you have sincerely repented to Allah and you are away from such heinous major sins now and blocked all means that would lead you astray again, you can get married to him and be a good, dutiful wife. You must not ever tell a single person about your sins, not even […]

His family is an Arab and I am Muslim African this month he will graduate his family pushing him to marry an Arab speacially his moth I am afraid to said you have to marry me with out his family permission he will travel to his country after a few weeks later I knw they are waiting this time to convince him he explain about me to his family his mother said he can’t marry African

Pre-Marital Relations

18 Sep

ANSWER: This kind of relationship is absolutely prohibited in islam and you’re sinful for continuing this. If you don’t want Allah’s wrath on you in this dunya and the hereafter and if you want Allah to pardon you, you must immediately stop all communication with him and block him from everywhere besides repenting sincerely. A […]

sheikh I’m married since 12 yrs but I was forced to marry I dont want to continue this relationship but as I have a daughter I cant leave this relation i knw my husband will never leave me I want to marry my cousin due to this worry I cant sleep my health is getting affected kindly guide me.

Pre-Marital Relations

20 Aug

ANSWER: Being in contact with your cousin is sinful if you were single, and it is even worse when you are married to another man. This is betrayal! You must repent to Allah and express deep remorse over your sins and ask Allah for forgiveness. You need to evaluate your situation and whether your husband […]

I had a Male best friend in my uni. Recently I came across your vids from AskZad. They changed me I blocked all means of communication with him thou he still calls me with different caller IDs but I never answer. I was ignorant but Allah guided me through u. Now I observe niqab at uni n totally avoid him. But at times why I get thoughts like what if he curses me? Curses affect?

Pre-Marital Relations, Sins

30 Jul

ANSWER: Let him curse all he wants as this does not have any effect. Don’t let Satan mess with your mind to make you fall into sinning again. You have repented and Allah will accept your repentance and forgive you as long as you remain steadfast.

I cried and i felt lost. how do i calm myself bcos i miss someone so badly that i did not manage to be myself

Pre-Marital Relations

21 Jul

ANSWER: You should know that whoever loves something of this world more than Allah, he will be tormented by it. You need to get back to Allah and worship Him sincerely and ask Him for guidance, peace of mind and for tranquility.

My only so lives in with a none muslin GF Brother, we of course we condemn the relation with anger. But what diplomatic ways we can handle.we offered them to get married asap in the mosques and so bigger event later. its not working can we put bigger sanctions on them on the other hand we also want the girl turns to islam. dont want to scare both away. beside he is the only one pray for us after death

Pre-Marital Relations

03 Jul

ANSWER: If you mean your son lives in with a non muslim girlfriend, this is absolutely prohibited and you must not accept this at all. There is no compromise in Islam even if he is your only son. Prophet Nooh peace be upon him asked Allah about his son who refused to believe in Allah […]

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