Pedagogy education and upbringing

My sister sends her 8 year old to a non-Muslim school as there are no Islamic schools in her town. The school celebrates non-Muslim festivals, has regular singing, glorifies witchcraft and serves non-halal meat. My sister thinks it’s not so serious because her daughter is still young. Is this correct and at what daughter’s age should she relocate to fix this problem?

Halal/Haram Matters, Pedagogy education and upbringing

22 Jul

ANSWER: Your sister is sinful, she can let her daughter study online, and in this way she will not be forced to attend such haram events. This is a critical age and she is setting the foundation to her daughter whether to be a real Muslim or not.

My elder son is 12 years old.Alhumdulillah he is very intelligent and understands things very easily. But since 3-4 years he is very much against studies.He is ready to leave house if u we ask him to study for 2 hours with concentration as things get hard he tries to avoid them be it swimming or studies or anything else. What should I Do?

Pedagogy education and upbringing

20 May

ANSWER: Be patient, consistent, never give up, encourage him by giving him incentives and make a lot of Duaa.

Sir, I am a mother of 2, 12 yr & 9 yr old. My children offer prayers and read the quran and study daily but the rest of the time they pass their time watching ipad or TV because i dont send them out for fear of bad company. my question is how do i provide halal entertainment to my kids.i try to stop TV and devices and they end up just sitting on the sofa looking at me angrily.

Pedagogy education and upbringing

18 Mar

ANSWER: You can get them involved in some indoor games or reading stories about prophets or sahabas rather than exposing them to corrupt media. If you can give them an Islamic alternative and halal things to watch, that would be a win win situation. Bottom line is that you must not give them access to haram […]

Sheikh my daughter is 11. She has become very stubborn and back answers for every small thing. She shows no respect for her father.she is very rude and disrespectful in towards me. Shows no interest in reading quran or namaz. Spends most of the time on ipad or listening to music.she always complains she has no privacy when stope. Please advice how I can tame her.

Pedagogy education and upbringing

25 Feb

ANSWER: This is a phase that teenagers usually fall in! You must deal with her in a good way and try to incubate her but without compromising Islam! Explain to her that whatever is haram, you can’t assist her in doing it or permit her. Kindly refer to the following link(s): https://youtu.be/vA5DymlCT_o

Sheikh, I need your advise on how to deal with my lovely daughter . She’s 12 and at islamic school. She ‘s very intelligent and memorized few juzzuks. My concern is she’s always ask if she can go out free hair and wearing shorts! Please advise.

Pedagogy education and upbringing

03 Jan

ANSWER: This is an age where teenagers tend to become rebellious. It is a blessing from Allah that she is not actually doing this but rather asking permission for that. You must incubate her with love and compassion and explain to her through Islam and through logic how this would impact her life and the […]

sheikh i wanted to know any authentic dua to be recited for my new born as she is very cranky and cries a lot

Pedagogy education and upbringing

09 Oct

This is normal! If she doesn’t cry, there is something wrong with her. Take her to the doctor, she may have a medical problem. Recite ruqya Kindly refer to the following link(s): https://www.assimalhakeem.net/how-can-i-protect-my-children-from-evil-eye/

What are things that I can do to make my 12year boy love the religion.He always wants to play games.he does pray all the prayers but his prayers are fast.so how can I make him love the religion.

Pedagogy education and upbringing

17 Aug

Be a good model for him, let him love Allah and talk to him about the attributes and beautiful names of Allah, remind him that Allah watches him all the time. Allow him to play as this is human nature but also make him read pages of the seerah of the Prophet and memorize portions […]

I am blessed with a son Alhamdulilah…I wish to make him a Quran hafiz and I want to know which is the best age to begin with n what are the things to b done so that the child is righteous in every way

Pedagogy education and upbringing

26 Jul

There is no specific age, when you feel that your son can pronounce all the letter correctly you can start with him, Setting a good model, being patient, making dua, and good environment are things that may help. May Allah make him among His righteous slaves.

My 4 years old boy is extremely naughty.he don’t listen to anybody,hyperactive.what can i do to make him calm?any dua or amal or anything else?

Pedagogy education and upbringing

24 Jul

Kind treatment, setting good example and good environment and offering du‘aa’ constantly, especially at times when supplications are answered.

my 5 yr old daughter gets very stubborn when I ask her to do something or read Quran.. can u pls suggest me some dua to calm a stubborn child.. n to change her?

Pedagogy education and upbringing

14 Jun

There isn’t anything specific. Ask Allah straight ahead. This is normal behavior for a 5 year old child. Show her a lot of love and affection when it comes to teaching her the Quran and Sunnah and eventually, she will listen. You don’t want her to hate the Quran or to build a negative attitude […]

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