Pedagogy education and upbringing

QUESTION: Couple got divorced and have a child.Child is living with his father.So whoever is taking care of baby does she has the same status as mother(heaven lies under her feet).And does biological mother has any status/value in child’s life or not,if baby isn’t with her due to some reason but she loves that baby

Fiqh of the family, Pedagogy education and upbringing, Step Relations and Related Matters

25 Apr

ANSWER: The reward and the responsibility of being dutiful is only to the real biological mother. The step mother is rewarded for her kindness and that is it. She has no rights on her step child at all.

QUESTION: I have 2 boys (5,3years) and they always Slept with us in our room and our bed space. We never let them sleep separately . But now, as they are growing, they cry and shout if they see we spouse together(hugging or sitting close). What’s the age the kids should sleep separately by Islam? And what can be done to keep them in their rooms and not run back to us at midnight?

Pedagogy education and upbringing

20 Mar

ANSWER: They must sleep in their rooms at such ages as they can see and recognize nudity and awrah. Lock your doors at night and suppress your emotions and they will learn.

QUESTION: I divorced my ex few years ago we have son who’s 8. Every year he gets his birthday celebrated which I tell him not to do. Some say he’s too young to understand and tell me to take it easy. But is his mum not sinful to let this happen? And what can I do in this situation. Please advice

Pedagogy education and upbringing

07 Mar

ANSWER: Of course she is sinful. You must teach and empower your son to refuse to celebrate his birthday or ask to have him visit you that day so that you can keep him away from imitating the disbelievers. However, if she has full custody over him and you can’t control that, there is no […]

QUESTION: Is it okay for small girls to wear boy clothes? Babies and girls under 7? Bcz it is haram for women to imitate men, does this come under this?

Men Clothing, Pedagogy education and upbringing, Women clothing

13 Feb

ANSWER: This is not permissible even for small children.

QUESTION: Is it allowed to differentiate among one’s kid as Yaqoob (pbuh) did. He loved his two sons ( Yusuf pbuh and Bin Yameen) more than others, that’s why other siblings became jealous.

Fiqh of the family, Pedagogy education and upbringing

11 Feb

ANSWER: 1- Love is in the heart and one has no control over it. What is not permissible is to differentiate in treatment.

QUESTION: Is it permissible to say things to my kid like “if you dont eat food, the crow will take it away” or “if you do that, then the police will come and take you”

Pedagogy education and upbringing

23 Jan

ANSWER: This is totally prohibited as it is lying.

QUESTION: What is the ruling on naming children Moses, Noah, Aaron and etc? Is this allowed or do we have to strictly use the arabic equivalent?

Pedagogy education and upbringing

16 Jan

ANSWER: You should have pride in your religion and call them with their Arabic names.

QUESTION: What is the first thing that we should teach to our toddlers about Islam? Which subject should we start?

Pedagogy education and upbringing

10 Jan

ANSWER: Teach them about Allah and His beautiful names and attributes in a way that they can relate to. You can also teach them stories from the seerah of the prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam Life’s Adornments: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLmeZZmICk2Qd8ZPlIytwuus6koQMuBHNg

QUESTION: School celebrate Nativity play during Christmas, they make students practice costumes,songs but secular way.I know sheikh it’s haram. but my question, will it take us parents out of Islam if our children participate or sing Christmas song in school? I try my best to withdraw but no parents care about that although majority students here are Muslim, that’s why it gets more difficult for someone wan

Pedagogy education and upbringing

05 Dec

ANSWER: This doesn’t take you out of islam but it’s totally prohibited and as a parent you must not let your children grow on such filth ! It is a matter of time before they would embrace such disbelief and then you would be accountable for everything wrong they believe and do as you are […]

QUESTION: Can one name his twins Abdallah Hassan and Adulrahman Hussain

Pedagogy education and upbringing

08 Nov

ANSWER: How many people are they? If they are only two, why give them four names? This makes no sense at all!

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