Pedagogy education and upbringing

Is bribing kids, like saying if u be good I will buy you this haram?

06 Mar

ANSWER: No problem in this. This is not bribing, this is called giving incentives for their good behavior.

I am a mother of 4 months old. Most of the time i miss my obligatory prayers due to my son’s crying. He hardly stays quiet on bed. If i leave him crying on the top of his voice & pray, that too is not worth as my whole attention will be towards my crying son. I am afraid for the punishment that i will get bcz of neglecting my prayers. I don’t know what to do.

Pedagogy education and upbringing, Prayer

25 Feb

ANSWER: What you are doing is absolutely not permissible and missing fard salah deliberately is a major sin! Let him cry all he wants, put toys in front of him to keep him busy. If you give in to his tantrums like this he will never learn to accept no for an answer. And besides, […]

My son is 10 and has recently changed with his attitude towards me and his attitude to memorizing the Qur’an. He frequently gets upset and cries if I don’t give him what he wants. I was hoping if you could give me advice on how to change him back to the loving boy he once was and how to instill the love of Qur’an in his heart.

Pedagogy education and upbringing

12 Feb

ANSWER: Handle him with love and care, maybe he needs more attention of yours. Treat him with compassion but don’t give him anything he wants and especially when he cries so that he wouldn’t always resort to such methods. Show him how much Quran is important and reward him for memorizing it and praise him […]

Until what age are young children male and female allowed to play together/be in class together?

Pedagogy education and upbringing

01 Feb

ANSWER: This varies for every child. Generally speaking, when boys start to notice beauty, they should be taught segregation and this can be before reaching the age of puberty. A girl must distance herself from the opposite gender by the age of 9 to 10 and start observing the proper hijab.

Alhamdulillah Allah has blessed us with 3 children mashaAllah. MashaAllah we have space and can afford to have more children but my husband has said no. I do 90% of the parenting but still he thinks it will be too tiring to have more kids. He never mentioned this before we started a family. I feel utterly heartbroken, do you have any advice sheikh.

Fiqh of Marriage, Pedagogy education and upbringing

27 Jan

ANSWER: Giving a gap between children is permissible, however permanently stopping to have kids is not permissible. Try to speak to him couple of years from now.

What if a 14 year old steal from their parent pocket. How should we approach? What should we do in that situation. What is the best way to deal with this situation. Please guide

Pedagogy education and upbringing

18 Jan

ANSWER: You must counsel them, talk to them and show them what a major sin this is. Hide your money and wallets in a safe away from their reach and always remind them of Allah and put the fear and love of Allah in their hearts.

Pls may I ask is there any Dua to make my kids more pious? Due to us not practicing proper in the past we gave much freedom to the kids now they are 19yrs and I’m finding it difficult

Pedagogy education and upbringing

09 Jan

ANSWER: There isn’t anything prescribed. Teach them the basics if Islam and explain to them that one can’t be a real Muslim without submitting his will to Allah and being a servant and not a master. A servant obeys and adheres to His master’s commands and if he doesn’t and if he rebells , His […]

I’ve seen video by U explaining this matter in detail however U didn’t highlight following. Please clarify if following hadith classified by Albani should be taken into consideration & followed or one should leave it. Narrated Abu Rafi’: I saw the Messenger of Allah uttering the Adhan in the ear of al-Hasan ibn Ali when Fatimah gave birth to him. (Sunan Abi Dawud 5105 – Graded Hasan by al-Albani)

Commentary on Hadeeth, Pedagogy education and upbringing

15 Nov

ANSWER: The sheikh had rectified that and said that he made a mistake and graded it as weak in Adda’eefah 6121

What are the duas for the protection of children?

Pedagogy education and upbringing, Supplications

30 Oct

ANSWER: PROTECTION FOR CHILDREN If you say this Duaa in the morning and evening, this would would protect you and your children with the grace of Allah Allahumma inni as’alukal- afiyata fid-dunia wal-akhirati.Allahumma inni as’alukal-‘afwa wal afiyata fi dini wa dunyaya,wa ahli wa maali.Allahumma-ustur ‘awrati wa amin raw’ati.Allahumma-ihfazni min bayni yadaiya wa min khalfi,wa ‘an […]

sir m in a panic stage i dnt knw what to do,,,,i always had a doubt that my daughter aged 14 Use insta,,twiter etc,yesterdat i saw my dayghter’s pic with a boy on twiter like a very happy pic,,n when i asked she said he was blackmailing me so i went to meet him n took again pics as he was forcing me so i dnt trust her how i knw what else she did with him?how to knw what happened ?

Pedagogy education and upbringing

28 Jul

ANSWER: I don’t know! This is something you and their father must look into and deal with it with wisdom and firmness. If she is studying in a mixed school, you must take her out and put her in a segregated one or give her homeschooling. Take away from her all smartphones and PDA devices […]

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