Pedagogy education and upbringing

QUESTION: Please could you let me know what is the right thing to do about our jointly owned home in the UK after divorce. Our three children currently live with me in the house but we are in the process of formal divorce. Husband wants 50% of the property worth and expects me to continue paying the loan of the whole house for me and the children.Please reply.

Divorce, Pedagogy education and upbringing

26 Dec

ANSWER: If the property is jointly owned by you and him and you paid for half and he paid for half, this means that he has the right in half of it. But if you did not pay anything in it and he didn’t give you half of it as a gift, rather he did […]

QUESTION: I have heard a daa’eyah say that we shouldn’t teach young children about the attributes of Allah like his wajh, hands, shin, feet because the young children aren’t able to understand these things and could fall into tajseem so we should teach them when they are able to understand these sensitive topics, what is your view on this?

Pedagogy education and upbringing

06 Dec

ANSWER: We don’t take knowledge from so called “da’ee” as these are not students of knowledge nor scholars. We teach the children whatever was mentioned in the Quran and Sunnah with the understanding of the 3 favorite generations. It is like the western psychiatrists who say do not talk to children about death or hellfire […]

QUESTION: I have a 6 mnths old baby ., and my in laws says that we should not take the baby outside at night as there are jins at night and it will affect the baby. Is this true?? Can we take the babies outside at night?

Pedagogy education and upbringing

18 Oct

ANSWER: No problem as long as you or any adult is accompanying him.

QUESTION: Is it allowed for new born babies to play with trumpet like toys, toys that makes jingle sounds etc.

Pedagogy education and upbringing

12 Oct

ANSWER: Musical instruments are not permitted even for children.

QUESTION: If the parents raise up their children really badly. Don’t force them to pray or fast. Themselves don’t pray. Don’t know about Islam send their children to secular coed schools. If the child then grown up and does not pray is completely worldly and materialistic will he still get sins or will his parents bare his sins for raising him up without teaching him Islam.

Pedagogy education and upbringing

03 Oct

ANSWER: Once he’s an adult, he’s responsible for his own actions and will be sinful and parents are also sinful for not raising the kids on islam.

If I teach my son an ayah/surah from the Quran, can I ask my child to keep reading it when iam alive as well i am dead so that it will act as a Sadaqah jariyah for me?

Fiqh of the family, Pedagogy education and upbringing, Reading/Reciting the Quran

09 Aug

ANSWER: No problem.

Is it permissable to have an celebration party with family members for someone who had circumsision

Halal/Haram Matters, Pedagogy education and upbringing

06 Aug

ANSWER: This is not from the sunnah and it is more of a Jewish tradition.

Sheikh do parents have to make sure that their children are eating the same share with regard to things like cereal for example, like making sure all children eat the same amount of bowls(of cereal)? Considering the children are of close age

Fiqh of the family, Pedagogy education and upbringing

14 Jul

ANSWER: No! This is too extreme. Each child has different appetite and likings, you can’t force them to eat exactly like the other siblings!

Is it permissible for children to wear dress with images,cartoon characters ect?

Halal/Haram Matters, Images and image-making, Pedagogy education and upbringing

30 Jun

ANSWER: This is not permissible. It is permissible to give children toys that have the shape of humans or animals. It is not permissible to have these drawings on the clothes of children.

Is it haram to find out the gender of the baby before it is born?

Halal/Haram Matters, Pedagogy education and upbringing

18 May

ANSWER: No problem in this as long as it is legal in your country.

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