Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

My husband family today they want make a party becouse sombody finish univercity,this party wil be just for women..the party wil start with islamic lesson .a sheikha(not salafi) wil come, but after that with Music.. …I need your advice sheikh,Can i go just to congradulate her and come back home?Or its is better to dont go?

05 Feb

………………………………………… If you go and congratulate her without indulging yourself in the other forbidden activities, this is permissible IF YOU are a normal person. But if you represent Islam and they all know that you are a Da’iyah, you shouldn’t

Sheikh, a new revert sister come to our website and she start to discribe her sins who are done before embrace islam.Can she make this or i must advice her in privat?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

05 Feb

She must not do this. Although Allah has forgiven her all her sins by reverting to Islam, never the less, the sins she is describing have no value and may do more harm than good. Any weak person with weak Iman may be affected by her description of sins and may wish that he can […]

Have an absurd question, which troubles me. Thing is I like long hair a lot!!! In fact I can’t imagine a wife without long, healthy, shiny hair. I don’t know why would any woman want to have their hair short but some actually do. Now since we can’t see her hair, can we ask how long her hair is? Problem is that it just sounds so wrong but I don’t want to take a chance either. Maybe that’s where sisters would come in handy. What if somebody doesn’t have a mother/sister to ‘see’ the girl? I actually find that wrong too. I mean this is not a sale or anything that you need to scrutinize everything. So any solutions???

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

05 Feb

…………………………………………………………… It is the man’s right to ask about such things as this comes part of making sure of the future wife. Therefore, there is nothing wrong in asking the father about this concern and telling him that you require your wife to have long hair. If she doesn’t, the father will apologize and […]

Today at work a non mahram manager came over to me and offered he hand to shake, I was in such a situation that I shaked the hand. In a non muslim country men and women are treated the same .. but I know you should no shake hands with a person who is not your mahram. All eyes were on me to shake her hand and the I was pressured to shake the hand Usually I dont shake hands with no mahram but in such a pressure situation and such a environment and atmosphere it was hard to resist. Is there any fatwa regarding this situation. i pray to allah and repent for my sins (as stafir allah wa atooba illay)

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

05 Feb

…………………………………………………. What you have done is wrong and a sin and the justification you gave is not legitimate. You have to have dignity in your religion without violence or rudeness. You can simply apologize that it is against your religion to shake hands with the opposite sex. It would be a bit embracing and […]

If a covert muslima s going to inherit her christian parents,can she spend the money or keep it because the family bussiness is from grapes farm and some grapes are use to make wine and some vinegar and some to sell as fruits and other things? and if she cannot inherit them, can she recieve it as a gift from them while they are still alive?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

05 Feb

………………………………………….. It is permissible to accept a gift from them but it is not permissible to inherit them.

There is a brother whos parents( father particulalrly ) regularly shout at him and ‘pick on him’ sometimes for small things or things which are not true, and he is called wrong/treated badly What should the brother do / act in accordance with quran/suna

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

05 Feb

He should tolerate his father’s behavior and not reply to him in any fashion that would be considered impolite. He should try to explain his point of view but if the father doesn’t accept it, he should not peruse trying to convince him. one should supplicate to Allah that he would guide his parents to […]

Somebody has posted in a forum: Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) said, “Kill any Jew that falls into your power.” It’s very essential that Muslims kill all the Jews. Those damned apes have taken over Muslim land and corrupted the whole world. But Islam will prevail, alhamdullilah wht we should reply?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

05 Feb

……………………………………………………………………………………………… There isn’t any such hadeeth to my knowledge. The Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam didn’t kill them himself while he was alive and he wouldn’t order such thing

Are we not allowed to sleep with the lights on?or is not recomanded? I hear that we must close all lights while we sleep.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

05 Feb

This is not true. You can sleep with the lights on. What is recommended is not to let fire on while sleeping so that a mouse would not come and burn the house with it. And Allah knows best

There is any evidence that we can’t put anything on the Quran?(over the cover).And it is haram to do so?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

05 Feb

There is nothing in the Sunnah that forbids this directly. It only falls under the general rulings of respecting the Quran.. And Allah know best

Can i say the basmala in other language than arabic?For exemple when i start to eat can i say : In the name of Allah(becouse i m not an arab i feel more comforable to say it in my native language)…i depride myself from reward?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

05 Feb

Although the meaning of Bismillah is “I begin with the name of Allah”, yet this is an Islamic terminology and we must say it as it is. It is also not permissible to say Allah is great instead of Allahu Akbar. And Allah knows best

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