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It is the man’s right to ask about such things as this comes part of making sure of the future wife.
Therefore, there is nothing wrong in asking the father about this concern and telling him that you require your wife to have long hair. If she doesn’t, the father will apologize and the matter would end there.

And Allah knows best

Have an absurd question, which troubles me. Thing is I like long hair a lot!!! In fact I can’t imagine a wife without long, healthy, shiny hair. I don’t know why would any woman want to have their hair short but some actually do. Now since we can’t see her hair, can we ask how long her hair is? Problem is that it just sounds so wrong but I don’t want to take a chance either. Maybe that’s where sisters would come in handy. What if somebody doesn’t have a mother/sister to ‘see’ the girl? I actually find that wrong too. I mean this is not a sale or anything that you need to scrutinize everything. So any solutions???

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners | February 5, 2014 2:13 pm
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Today at work a non mahram manager came over to me and offered he hand to shake, I was in such a situation that I shaked the hand. In a non muslim country men and women are treated the same .. but I know you should no shake hands with a person who is not your mahram. All eyes were on me to shake her hand and the I was pressured to shake the hand Usually I dont shake hands with no mahram but in such a pressure situation and such a environment and atmosphere it was hard to resist. Is there any fatwa regarding this situation. i pray to allah and repent for my sins (as stafir allah wa atooba illay)
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Sheikh, a new revert sister come to our website and she start to discribe her sins who are done before embrace islam.Can she make this or i must advice her in privat?