Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

I have one neighbour who constantly asks me vegetables or something she says she has already built 2 houses in loan and the third house loan is being paid by her now and so has limited money only.please may I know should I encourage her asking or just turn it down.

20 Oct

ANSWER: If it is something trivial, give it to her and be a better person. Praise Allah you are not like her.

Im 30yrs old women with three kids i wrote u last time about my thyroid issue now the reports are out and it have come pisitive for thyroid cancer i really dont know what to do feel very depressed . My whole life i asked allah for protection from chronic illnesses whenever i use to hear about someone i used to seek forgiveness and protection but still?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

18 Oct

ANSWER: There are those who are tested with paralysis from the neck down. Others are tested by famine and drought where they travel for tens and hundreds of miles looking for water while watching their children wither away and die in front of their eyes. Some are tested with insecurity such as rape, crimes and […]

A street cat use to come house daily and dirty the sitting areaand used to drop dead rats in my house. I tried to keep it away and failed it gave birth and has 3 kittens now big enough and they to dirty the place. I dropped the mother far of place. Is it ok. I feel bad after dropping her off. Pls advise

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

23 Sep

ANSWER: If these kittens were totally dependent on their mother for food, it’s a sin to separate them from her. But if they’re big enough to take care of themselves then there’s nothing on you.

I wanted to know that while we are praying if sneeze or yawn do we have to say allhamdullilah or astagfirullah or just continue the surah which we were reciting.. please let me know.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

18 Sep

ANSWER: You must say Alhumdulillah when you sneeze. Saying anything after yawning is an innovation.

How do i keep from bad thing entering my heart and in my mind

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

04 Aug

ANSWER: Praise be to Allaah. We ask Allaah to make you steadfast in adhering to the truth, and to make your hopes come true, and to make you one of those who turn to Him and who know the truth, defend it and adhere to Islam. The things you mention in your question indicate that […]

Is it true that if Allah will take something precious to you such as parent,health,wealth and dreams he will replace it with reward and good deeds in hereafter?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

22 Jun

ANSWER: If you bear the loss with patience then you will be rewarded in the hereafter.

I get rejected because of my looks ,height and inability to give heavy dowry for marriage even by practising muslim families. i am 23 already . i am tired of hearing all types of comments about me by my extended family. No matter how hard i try to avoid i get sad .i have started feeling like a burden to my family. What i should do now sheikh?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

20 Jun

ANSWER: You must have complete trust and reliance on Allah that whatever He does is for your own good. There might be khair in what happened when these people rejected you, they were not good enough for you. Make dua during times of acceptance, such as in salah in your sujood, in the last tashahud, […]

If during a solat prayer my phone start to ring aloud what is expected for me to do at the moment not to distract others attention

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Prayer

24 Apr

ANSWER: Switch it off! One must take this precaution of putting the phone on silent before entering the masjid itself.

For my 22 years of life i trusted everyone blindly because i felt everyone wants someone to be there for them and in return i was stabbed severely. Now i can’t trust people. Even myself. My heart has solid walls around it so people now hate me. When i think i should off the guard the past savage pain warns me to not. What should i do?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

12 Apr

ANSWER: We learn from our mistakes and life is all about experiences! When you eat a hot dish of soup for the first time, you are scalded by it! This doesn’t prevent you from eating soup over and over again but it makes you more careful! The same goes with trusting people. You can’t trust […]

I have started practicing Islam as much as possible left many things that is prohibited I had a male frnd ALHAMDULILLAH 2 months ago I cut all the communication with him for the sake of ALLAH I DON’T TALK TO HIM at all bt I feel sad, low, miss him although I know its haram I Recite ASTGHFAR I Feel lonely plz suggest me something and make Duaa for me

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Pre-Marital Relations

10 Apr

ANSWER: This is a very critical stage you are going through! This is the fork of the road where Satan is doing his level best for you not to pass this stage! This is why he gets you depressed, sad and lonely! He reminds you of your previous sins and makes you miss them and […]

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