Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

I have an abusive father who is destroying my life since childhood. I’m not an emotional person. Now he is throwing me away out of his life. If he dies is it obligatory on his only son(me) to arrange everything(e.g.. his funeral)? I know Allah loves kindness but I can’t do it with this man. Please pardon me & just let me know is it ok if I manage anyone else to arrange everything like funeral etc?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of the family

21 Dec

ANSWER: You are asking me to give you a fatwa of depriving you to go to heaven through the middle gate, which is your father. You must be kind, gentle, respectful and humble with your father no matter what. If he has wronged you, he will be answerable before Allah and you would go straight […]

I struggle in my life everyday. My problems are mostly friend related. I have friends who gossip about me, who I feel don’t like me, I have friends who never include me in the things they do. I never seem to fit in, since when I was in high school, people smile at me in front of me then gossip about me behind me. I want to know if I’m doing anything wrong and why they do that to me. Thanks.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

07 Dec

ANSWER: This could just be your own perception or from shaytan whose job it is to sow discord between the Muslims. You must not think anyone is gossiping about you and as a Muslim, you are required to give them the benefit of the doubt and ignore their faults while anticipating your reward from Allah […]

Sheikh if I give a person a gift am I rewarded by Allah for that action and can food be offered as a gift

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

02 Dec

ANSWER: Yes to both the questions.

there’s a verse in the Qur’an which mentions when one’s heart becomes tight that is basically a sign of Allah’s displeasure. Unlike the heart which expands. But what about the people who are afflicted by ayn and sihr, Ayn and sihr cause the heart/chest to harden even though its via oppression. Are the victim’s also in the category due to the effects causing there hearts to harde

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

30 Nov

ANSWER: No, this is refering to the hardening of the heart as a result of a person’s sins, lack of knowledge in Islam or being far from Islam. Those with sihr or ayn must perform ruqyah.

There are people in our area they collect trash from each house and are very poor.They always ask my mom to give them lunch to eat.My mom always feed them but I think they are not Muslims although there claimed to be Muslim but they don’t pray any salah and according to your lectures you said those who doesn’t pray at all they are not Muslim.so my question is should mom stop feeding them?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

27 Nov

ANSWER: How do you know they don’t pray? Do you follow them 24/7 and monitor their moves and see if they’re praying or not! This approach of giving takfeer to people is the way of the khawarij, you must be very careful and never do this. No problem in your mum feeding them even if […]

Shykh plz help how to stop gossiping. I mean a meaningless talking.. Hope you understood my question. (How one can stop gossiping)?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

24 Nov

ANSWER: Avoid sitting with people who would help you gossip and only sit with righteous practicing Muslims!

I lost my money in big amount i know who took it but i cant ask for it because he is my brotherin law. Thats his bad behavior taking people s money . How to make duaa for it .how to make him feel sorry and return my money back . I really in hard situation. Dont know what to do . He is a thief.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

18 Nov

ANSWER: Either you have evidence that are strong enough to stand in a court of law or you are accusing him based on speculations and suspicion! If you have such evidence, either speak to your sister or if he is your husband’s brother, speak to your husband and demand your money from him. If you […]

How do i gain a big heart?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

16 Nov

ANSWER: By forgiving people and striving to live by islam.

One day,someone took my sandals and I noticed a pair of sandals that were similar to mine.I am usually among the last ones to leave the masjid. So, I was sure that the guy took my sandals my mistake. Because this sandal also used to be there when I used to leave the masjid. So, I took that pair of sandals and it is with me now. What is the ruling?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

30 Oct

ANSWER: If he made a mistake by taking your Sandals, you shouldn’t take someone’s else! Return them back and buy a new one.

Sheikh , can we in islam burp loudly like drinking soda drinks and burps loudly and opening mouth big and burp loudly infront of people

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

25 Oct

ANSWER: The Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam heard a man burping once and he said to him: withhold your burping from us as the people who are mostly full in this life are the most hungry on the day of judgement! This is disrespectful and it is inappropriate.

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