Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

Sheik,pls answer my question. My brothers in-laws stay with my husband & I.But they don’t stay in d main budling with us.they r always coming in to d main bundling without saying Salam be4 entering, sometime I might just be in d kitchen try to make my husband a cup of tea on my night wearn and d next thing I see is another man ,husband is d type of man DAT like to see me on sexy outfits.

07 Nov

This is totally unacceptable. You should keep your doors locked and tell your husband he should warn his brothers from entering the house when he’s not present and also without his permission. Your husband can’t be a real man if he accepts this situation and you must not leave the room without your full hijab!

She is my mother’s sister..but fact is she is extremely jealous so mean and of her deceive character.she repeatedly come to our home n made chaos between my father n mother,spoil my mental peace.many of our rltvs hate her.my ques is on my wedding prog ,if we dont invite her on my occassion (cz i need my mental peace)will it be sinfull fr me?is it mendatory to invite all relatives in wedding?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

08 Oct

She’s your aunt. You should invite her. Don’t pay her any attention, just smile in her face and don’t react to anything she says nor argue with her.

What about cutting down the RELATIONS with relatives in case if they have hurt me by putting evil eye on my family members… I hope sheikh you will get my point… Its the matter of honor

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

07 Oct

Cutting relationships with relatives is totally prohibited, you must at least greet them, and how do you know that they have evil eye on you, this feeling is from shytan.

My mum & her sister faught each other & my mum don’t speak to her for the past 1 year & she says that I should not speak to her or invite her to any funation in this case should I listen to my mum? Can I speak to my them without her permission

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

21 Sep

Yes you must not obey your mother in severing your kinship as this is a major sin.

My question is what if the parents dont want their grown up children to meet thier siblings means one parental (both sides) uncles and aunts and first cousins. Because of their own personal issues. Whats on the person then? What should one do.

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

18 Sep

One must not obey his parents in severing kinship as this is a major sin!

My sisters don’t communicate with me or with each other properly, I have to ALWAYS contact them first. My mother doesn’t follow Islam and starts hateful speech when I nicely refuse to do something unislamic. I feel hatred towards them coz it’s always a BURDEN to handle them but I force myself to talk 2 them for Allah’s sake alone. Am I bad for this hatred and anger towards them bt I do it 4 Allah?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

15 Sep

As long as you don’t show or express this anger and hatred, you are not at sin! However, a Muslim excels to the highest level possible in order to be with the Prophet salla Allahu alaihi sa sallam in paradise. Therefore, be always the first to call them and to reach out and never allow […]

Once I invited a relative,with whom family terms were not good because of minor dispute long back,for a wedding at our home but they didn’t show up. Next year we had another marraige for which we sent them invitation again they didn’t come. This year too we had another marraige of a family member but this time I didn’t sent them invite.Is it breaking kinship from my side?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

08 Sep

Yes! Now, you are like them! What harm does it do to you to keep on inviting them and they decline to come? Do it for the sake of Allah.

My cousin is 34,unemployed and has a bad reputation.I am uncomfortable and irritated by his presence.He watches Football,swears a lot loudly and eat from our place.I can’t study nor pray in peace.I have my big exams coming.I called my father,turned of the tv on my cousin’s face and told him to stop coming at our place.Now my brothers are telling me i did wrong & put father at shame. I’m confused.

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

21 Aug

You were not allowed to mix or talk with him in the first place as he is not your mahram. Such a decision can only be taken by your father as the head of the house. When you talk to his guests in such a fashion, you are humiliating him and disgracing him.

Can I play Ludu game with my Male cousin (while wearing Niqab & covering myself properly) when other female cousins are also in the game and my elders are also sitting around? Please answer

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives, Halal/Haram Matters

27 Jul

This is known as free mixing and it is prohibited. Besides, it is forbidden to use dice.

How do we deal with family members that steal, speak abuse and perform black magic on us? Do we still maintain ties of kinship?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

26 Jul

Keep your distance and give them a call every now and then.

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