Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

sheikh, my family go out to far places sometimes for the purpose of enjoyment and they are not practicing and careless about the salah and I fear that if I go with them I would miss my salah and would be difficult for me to pray and I have to disobey them in this regard, is it permissible for me to disobey or should I go?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives, Prayer

23 Apr

ANSWER: No problem in joining them and performing your prayers on time even if you have to disobey them in this regard. Your presence might be a deterrent for them from doing a lot of more sins and you might also be a reminder for them to pray on time. There’s no obedience to the created at […]

I want to know can we maintain distance frm relatives who tell im spoiling their daughter inlaw or tell about about me n my hubby in the same relation….can i keep the kinship with only salam please clarify…

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

20 Apr

ANSWER: Allah mandates that you uphold ties with those who are in your kinship. You must maintain Salam at least when you see them or call them every now and then to check up on them or see if there is anything you can do for them. The in laws on the other hand are […]

I don’t quite understand what it means to uphold the ties of kinship. Do I have to talk with my relatives on phone (I don’t live near them) regularly to uphold the ties? I see them once in a year or two.

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

14 Apr

ANSWER: Yes, you must call them regularly to maintain Salam with them and see if they need anything and answer their invitations and invite them to yours.

As we are not allowed to cut ties with relatives but what to do of those relatives who create fights and rift amongst each other? The more we keep in touch the more problems create.

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

25 Mar

ANSWER: Reduce the time spent with them and minimize it but do not sever kinship.

I’ve been Muslim for 5 years and struggled with my family. They’re Christian so seeing them with falling in sins is impossible. From girls kissing me to alcohol being served at my table to struggling to pray I’ve had it all. If I cut my family or just do the sins I’m a bad Muslim but when i try to avoid the sins I fail or get in fights. What to do? I’m doomed matter wh

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

30 Jan

ANSWER: It is not permissible to be in the presence of alcohol or put yourself in situations where you know free mixing would occur. Allah mandates upon you to uphold ties of kinship with your family and the mahrams in your family. You must advise them with good manners, wisdom, and diplomacy and call them […]

If we have brother and sisters who we KNOW they dont pray OUT OF LAZINESS. Is it fard upon us to boycott them? Or can we still hang out with them and talk. Sadly MANY peoplr around us from freinds and family dont pray. They would never drink alcohol or zina etc because its haraam but everyone seems sooooo leniet when it comes to prayer.

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives, Fiqh of Marriage

27 Jan

ANSWER: Don’t cut them off and keep on praying in front of them and inviting them to join and giving them gentle reminders every now and then.

I don’t spend much time with my family (other than my parents and siblings) I’d like to know if I have to call my grandma,uncles,aunties every now and then or is it okay if I don’t call them at all but when I see them somewhere I talk to them and say سلم. Is that considered as breaking ties? What if I don’t see them for years/months but I don’t hate them

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

24 Jan

ANSWER: You must maintain ties by meeting them every now and then if they live near by or give them calls if they live far away but you cannot stop talking with them for this long.

Do we have to maintain ties with every single relative or just most of them?

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

15 Jan

ANSWER: You must maintain ties with all the relatives that are mahram to you and those of the same gender who are related to you from your father and mother’s side.

Question is from someone very close to me. “For my own fault there is a problem among relatives in a family.Now its killing me inside.how can I recover my fault?? I cant ask forgiveness from them by meeting with them.Because it may cause more problems.how can I get forgiveness from Allah subhanuwatala. pls pls pls sheikh let me know.”

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

27 Dec

ANSWER: Make a lot of duaa, give charity on their behalf, send them gifts, try to be nice with them, and make a lot of istighfar.

We have sold a machine to my cousin ……..$ and it has been …..yrs now he is not willing to pay, when we ask for the cash he don’t respond anything than I don’t have money n ur Mashine is already spoiled. We beg for our Haq but he don’t care can we cut ties with him and remain with the relationship of Salaam Salaam only? Bcoz I can’t even stand talking to him and even asking for that cash anymore.

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives

19 Dec

ANSWER: Your cousin is a non-mahram to you and you are not obliged to keep ties with him due to the fact that he is a non-mahram to you. Your father and brothers, however, must uphold ties of kinship with him regardless of this while anticipating their reward with Allah alone. They should also take […]

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