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By advising them and reminding them of Allah and the ruling from the Quran and sunnah when they are willing to listen and by choosing the right times. 

How to advice a spouse who follows culture more than islam? And when you do try to explain they get verbally abusive, and don’t want to listen..

Kind Treatment of Spouses, Knowledge & Propagation | June 3, 2021 4:12 am
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My husband doesn’t like me to have hobbies. He allowed me gardening 2 hours a day, but even so he reproaches me for that, as he says house in not tidy enough for his likings. He demands ideal house, everything even in drawers arranged in perfect way, as he is perfectionist. And I am not, I keep house clean, but not ideal. Am I allowed in Islam to have 2 hrs gardening even if house is not perfect?
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My husbnd is not replyng to WhatsApp msgs since Eid (anthr country). My 5 yr son asks 4 video call wd him. I called n he didn’t pickup. He didn’t ask again. My parents r harshly critical of me n thnk of me as a burden. Plz pray for my sanity. I’m havng lot of health issues. I’m so angry! I hit my son n thn cry! I LOVE him