Fiqh of Marriage

QUESTION: Is it important for men also to ask his wife before going anywhere?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

13 Nov

ANSWER: No. He is not obliged to ask for her permission or to even tell her. However, it is part of being a good husband to tell her or inform her so that her mind would be at ease.

QUESTION: I have heard women asking for verses of Quran as their haq mahar. (sidaaqa in Arabic i guess) I wanted to ask if i can demand from my husband to be that ” You cannot neglect Salah intentionally at any cost plus you have to read the Quran daily with translation , even if it’s one verse” The only intention is to bring my life partner closer to Allah ( SWT) Is it legit to ask??

Dowry, Fiqh of Marriage

12 Nov

ANSWER: This is permissible to ask as a condition in marriage but not as a dowry.

QUESTION: I got married without liking the girl, for the sake of my parents. Its been more than 7 months but i still can’t have the feelings I should have for her. Im just married to her mostly for the sake of my parents, society and i fear that if i leave her, her life would be ruined. Should i still be with her if i dont find peace and comfort with her?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

07 Nov

ANSWER: You had already ruined her life when you married her in the first place without being able to act like a man and refuse. You must look at the good attributes in her and appreciate her for who she is instead of being focused on leaving her and justifying this with lame excuses!

QUESTION: If a man and woman adopts a baby girl who the wife breastfeeds. Can he as the father through breastfeeding be the wali when this girl grows up?

Fiqh of Marriage, Step Relations and Related Matters

02 Nov

ANSWER: He can never be her guardian as he is not from her kinship and she doesn’t carry his name. Her guardian is her biological paternal kinship and if they are not known, then the muslim judge or the authorized Muslim Imam becomes her guardian.

QUESTION: Can someone curse her husband for doing injustice to his wife? Such as divorcing her because she doesn’t look pretty? Although He saw her before marriage & very much interested about her. Just after 2 days of marriage he told her she’s not pretty & he doesn’t want to be in this marriage. The girl is totally devastated & broken. Doesn’t know what to do . This man just ruined her life & her family.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

31 Oct

ANSWER: She shouldn’t weep over such an ignorant imbecile, rather she should be grateful that Allah has saved her from continuing to be married to him and that she had separated from him before having any children.