ANSWER:

You had already ruined her life when you married her in the first place without being able to act like a man and refuse. 

You must look at the good attributes in her and appreciate her for who she is instead of being focused on leaving her and justifying this with lame excuses!

QUESTION: I got married without liking the girl, for the sake of my parents. Its been more than 7 months but i still can’t have the feelings I should have for her. Im just married to her mostly for the sake of my parents, society and i fear that if i leave her, her life would be ruined. Should i still be with her if i dont find peace and comfort with her?

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses | November 7, 2023 1:26 am
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QUESTION: I have heard women asking for verses of Quran as their haq mahar. (sidaaqa in Arabic i guess) I wanted to ask if i can demand from my husband to be that ” You cannot neglect Salah intentionally at any cost plus you have to read the Quran daily with translation , even if it’s one verse” The only intention is to bring my life partner closer to Allah ( SWT) Is it legit to ask??