ANSWER:

It is your right to demand a separate accommodation where you don’t need to see any of them!

However, you should weigh the pros and cons as if you know he can’t afford that, you shouldn’t embarrass yourself. 

It is not logical to expect him to disrespect his mother or scold her for a misunderstanding. It is best that you deal with them as you deal with any bullies who try to get a negative remark from you. Simply ignore them and smile in their face. Never argue and never defend yourself no matter what they say or do. 

This would kill them softly and would turn the tables over their heads and make you win in the eyes of others for being polite and peaceful. 

Sheikh.i live with my in laws. They very frequently taunt me and say things that hurt me.whenever i tell my husband about it he says that I should talk to them and solve it myself and that it is not right for him to speak into these matters.what should I do? Is it right for husband to not take my stand and ask me to deal with it on my own?

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