Using such toys is prohibited on your own as this is masturbation. Try to coach your wife and to teach her how to please you bit by bit.

My wife is someone who is not really interested & doesn’t enjoy intercourse & intimacy.I have to ‘start’ anything myself to fulfill my desires, but cannot do so as much I would want to. I don’t think I will be able to do justice to two wives if I take a 2nd wife. Would it be allowed for me to use some sexual toys rather than falling into a Haram relationship outside marriage?

Fiqh of the family | September 21, 2014 2:54 am
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My daughter and son in law are not allowing me and her step father to see the baby anymore. She is 10 months now and we have done everything for them. My daughter has chronic fatigue and we are always there to help FINANCIALLY as well. My husband is a joker and has made joking comments over the years and months as he does with his own family. He said to my daughter maybe I can teach baby some Algerian cooking , maybe she will be a doctor or something nice when she is older if you encourage her in her education. Sometimes he calls me his wife whitey woman and I call him browny man as JOKE. HE SAID IT LOVINGLY TO MY GRANDDAUGHTER WHITEY GIRL AND SAID GRANNY IS GRUMPY.We helped my daughter and son in law to move house financially last week and now they sent a text to me from my son in law saying that we can not see the baby to take her out as they do not want my husband to see her as he is a bad influence. My husband is a practicing Muslim that loves to joke, only he did not know he was upsetting anyone. My son in law said I can come to their home and see the baby but not take her out. My daughter and son in law are both revert Muslims and have really hurted me. I am in the middle and at my wits end I did nothing wrong but I can’t take my grandchild out. Please could you advise me on this situation that shaitan has created
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If one’s father/husband asks family to cut down relationship with others (relatives) as they bring nothing but Fitnah and everything negative possible. What’s the ruling? Their gathering includes backbiting/slandering of others and evil eye too Allahu Alam.