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You have the right to keep your house however you want and can ignore her suggestions but keep in mind she is your elder and you must honor her.  Tolerate her for the sake of Allah and Allah will reward you accordingly. A mother usually believes that she has great rights over her son who is her child. Beware of insulting her or talking bad to her as this would cause your husband to hate you.

Mother in law already has two houses n getting rent.she visits for months each son but whn shes over she shows its her sons house n interferes in matter.moreover disturbs d normal running of house and keeps unhygenic behavior n shows its her house as she has more right to her son.if thus is true,which is the wifes and kids home?dont they hv right to keep their houses as they want