This is not true.
Kufr happens when a person rejects Allah’s command or doesn’t believe that it is from Allah.
Allah says: “Jihâd (holy fighting in Allâh’s Cause) is ordained for you (Muslims) though you dislike it, and it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you like a thing which is bad for you. Allâh knows but you do not know.” 2:216
Therefore, it is OK for a woman to dislike her husband taking a second wife as this is only natural. She is not allowed however to do things that don’t please Allah.