ANSWER:
We don’t respond to people of deviance and shirk with their logic!
It is a waste of time to do such nonsense when the prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam didn’t do any of such shirk and innovation after the demise of his beloved wife khadeehjah or the martyrdom of his uncle Hamzah and 70 of his companions on Uhud!
It was he who said: those who wail, slap their faces, cut their clothes or tear their clothes while mourning are not from us and they are from the people of Jahiliyah!