Fiqh of Marriage

Sir, I wanted to marry a girl in my Locality and the girl was also interested in marrying me . However her parents rejected the marriage proposal and the reason was that they belong to shah caste and they don’t marry their daughters outside their own caste. They say they are the descendants of Prophet Muhammad (P B U H). Is this reason justified and whats your suggestion for me as I am heartbroken

04 Jan

ANSWER: This is not a valid reason to reject a proposal as there’s no caste system in Islam! Nevertheless, this is the decision of the father who is her guardian.

During nikah, is it sufficient to put the guests in one hall but the females are in the right side and the males are in the left side? Next, considering that some of my family members dont abide by hijab, can I require them to wear hijab just during the occasion and wear modest clothing?

Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters, Sports, Entertainment and Music

30 Dec

ANSWER: This is not permissible at all. The gathering must be segregated.

Sir in india when a women is about to deliver child,her husband sends her to her parents for delivery and he doesn’t pay for anything,all the hospital and delivery expenses should be paid by her parents,if they dnt then they force them by threats of divorce and says its their responsibility as its cultural ,plz tell me isnt it the responsibility of a man to pay for his childs birth and delivery

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses

25 Dec

ANSWER: This is totally prohibited as this is the responsibility of the child’s father. Her parents shouldn’t pay anything. However, it is unfortunate that many husbands in India are not real men!

Sheikh,if one doesnt do the whole wedding exchange process on wedding but they gift each other rings after the wedding is this permisable? And the lady only wears it infromy of mahrams and they the guy so that everyone knows he is married after by seeing the ring om is this okay sheikh?

Engagement, Fiqh of Marriage, Halal/Haram Matters

22 Dec

ANSWER: This is not permissible as it’s imitating the disbelievers which Prophet salla allahu alaihi wa sallam forbade.

Since i went through an abortion am with ma parents to take rest for three mnths though three mnths are over now my husband keeps on calling me to his house bt i really dnt feel to go becz if i go my mom have to take care my niece since my sis goes to wrk so i alwys wants to ease my moms household job by helping her atleast by lukg aftr ma niece ma mom s nt well too wat shud i do

Fiqh of Marriage

18 Dec

ANSWER: What you are doing is absolutely prohibited! Why did you get married in the first place if you didn’t want to leave your mother’s house? You must immediately go back to your husband’s house as this is where you belong after marriage and take care of your husband and his house! You can always […]

Marrying a divorced woman is sunnah. So Marrying a divorced man will be sunnah as well? If someone is single/unmarried and marrying a divorced man.

Divorce, Fiqh of Marriage

17 Dec

ANSWER: No one has ever said that marrying a divorced woman is a sunnah!

I got to know an arab man and he is interested in marrying me and so am I. His family proposed for me in a very respectful way, and are willing to cooperate in all ways for my family to accept. Butmy father is making it difficult saying that I must marry a paki.And he says Allah will not question him for refusing here as prophet muhammad(saw)married fatima to Ali so family is preferd.Please advice

Fiqh of Marriage

15 Dec

ANSWER: You must obey your father as you can’t marry without his permission. If he has rejected many good proposals before like this man, you can complain to the Muslim court and they will assign someone else to be your guardian.

My question is about The Hadith of the food of Walima in which the rich is invited and poor are not invited. What do we mean by poor, poor relatives or poor people in general.

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of Marriage

14 Dec

ANSWER: Both! Ones who people are not usually proud to invite and feel ashamed or embarrassed when they come.

It’s very common in desi community to reject a girl or boy based on their color and mock them. Also parents and relatives criticize a child’s dark skin tone and comparing it to a buffalo’s or a crow’s. Is this sinful and is there any punishment for this?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of Marriage

14 Dec

ANSWER: This is definitely sinful as this is racist! Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam said that there is no superiority of a white person over a black and vice versa except through piety.

I’ve seen people to sign their wedding contracts or do nikah in masjids where the imam and other Muslimeen sit and pray for the newly wed. Is this from the sunnah? If it’s not a sunnah and if there’s nothing mentioned about it in the sunnah, where would you recommend us to sign our wedding contracts or do nikah?

Fiqh of Marriage, Marriage Contract

10 Dec

ANSWER: This is not from the sunnah but it is permissible. Nikah can be done anywhere, there’s no prescribed place for this. It must be segregated and women must not mix with men and there must be no music.

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