Oaths

I take care of my sister’s kids and sometimes, when I see them doing something inappropriate, I say “By God if you do that I will hit you.” I swear an oath in order to scare them and make realize that I am serious But sometimes they end up doing what I told them not to do. And when they do it, eventhough I made an oath that I will hit them, I mostly do not. My question is do I have to offer expiation to all the times I swore an oath without really acting upon it? And I do not remember how many times I have done this. Jazakallah

12 Feb

You have to give expiation on all these oaths which is to feed 10 poor people or clothe them. If you are unable to do so, you must fast 3 days for each oath. You should have hit them lightly just so that you wouldn’t have broken your oath.

I know if anyone wants to swear, he / she should swear in the name of Allah only. Many people, specially in Arab countries say “WALLAHI”. Is it not a sin because swearing in the name of Allah again and again is a sin? Saying “WALLAHI” in every sentence, is it not a sin?

Oaths

12 Feb

There are two types of swearing; one is the true real oath one makes by saying wallahi either to confirm doing something or to prevent himself from doing something. The other type is something that is not intended. This is what is used when people talk about things and they are not intending […]

One of our sister vowed (Nazr) that if something which she wishes happens she will read 41 times Surah Qaf. Is it necessary for her to complete it, or should she refrain from it?

Oaths

11 Feb

She should complete it.

If one person says to another person ‘By Allah or Wallahi I will send you back hone’ and then the person dont want to. Should he offer expiation kafaarath yameen.

Oaths

11 Feb

Yes, he should.

I said that if I do so and so i will became kafir. But i don’t do that things. What should i do now? Is there any way to repent?

Oaths

11 Feb

You must repent and show Allah sincere remorse and never go back to saying such things. As for the things you said you will not do, you must feed 10 poor people or clothe them if you want to do these things.

I’ve paid the amount of 10 meals with the intention of feeding 10 people through saddaqa online, not knowing that it would reach 10 people, is this acceptable?

Oaths

03 Feb

This is not acceptable. You have to feed 10 people for sure.

I know if anyone wants to swear, he / she should swear in the name of Allah only. Many people, specially in Arab countries say “WALLAHI”. Is it not a sin because swearing in the name of Allah again and again is a sin? Saying “WALLAHI” in every sentence, is it not a sin?

One of our sister vowed (Nazr) that if something which she wishes happens she will read 41 times Surah Qaf. Is it necessary for her to complete it, or should she refrain from it?

If one person says to another person ‘By Allah or Wallahi I will send you back hone’ and then the person dont want to. Should he offer expiation kafaarath yameen.

I said that if I do so and so i will became kafir. But i don’t do that things. What should i do now? Is there any way to repent?

I’ve paid the amount of 10 meals with the intention of feeding 10 people through saddaqa online, not knowing that it would reach 10 people, is this acceptable?

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