Manners

My mom says cant learn the meaning of the surah as she unable to remember them so if she just reads them will she be getting the reward for it?

12 Feb

Yes, she will but she has to try her best to learn the meanings as well.

Sheikh, is there anything such as a wife gives up her rights over her husband who is having difficulty in treating the wives fairly, if she can bear it? if so, does it have to be in writing or she can take an oath between Allah, and herself.

12 Feb

There is no need for writing it or having an oath. All she needs to do is to tell her husband that she has permitted him not to equally divide the nights between her and the other wives, for example.

My parents are semi practising muslim and at many places I have to help them.I do not go to the parties they go but like taking out the vehicle or bringing the driver then am I transgressing and if I avoid that then there is a big tension at home always.

Manners

12 Feb

Calling a taxi or getting the car out for them is not sinful in sha’ Allah. Driving them is. Try to measure the pros and cons and act accordingly.

My parents want me to become an enjineer.but i want to study islam and become an aalim(scholar).should i obey my parents?

Manners

12 Feb

No, you should do what you feel best in doing.

I want to get married to a spouse that i choose but my mother and father have warned me that if i don’t choose a spouse from their ethnic background they would not let the future wife in the house. what should i do?

Manners

12 Feb

You should try to convince them and show her the attributes of that girl. if they insist, I would advise you to obey them.

I am working as a waiter for the women’s (only women’s not men ) , in parties , marriages, and functions, so there is songs and dance , but I am not interested in that , I am just concentrating on my work , Is it haram for Me ?

Manners

12 Feb

Yes, it is haram as you are helping them.

During congregation salaah if my cell phones rings what should I do? In case of taking the phone out from pocket and turn it off does it have any affect on salaah in terms of haraam and makrooh?

Manners

12 Feb

You should reach to it and either put it off or answer the call by pressing the answer button so that the called would not call again and would know that you are praying.