Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

Is it permissible to give sadaqa with the intention that Allah accepts us a certain dua’a?

09 Aug

Yes

can we swim in the swimming pool with none muslims, for example, they are ‘not paak’ and maybe urine might be in the pool etc, what would you say about this?

26 Jul

Non Muslims are not “dirty” or najis! Swimming there is ok! However, the fact that there is most probably free mixing makes it forbidden!

Is it from the sunnah to buy gifts for family/friends on Eid? Or is this imitating the kaafir? If so, can I donate sadaqah to charity on somebodys behalf as a gift to them so we will both gain reward from Allaah?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

26 Jul

If it’s not for eid – when then? Yes, you may buy gifts for the loved ones, but they shouldn’t be obligatory or being exchanged! Eid is an occasion of jubilation and happiness and buying gifts increase this!

Is it haram to share pictures of what is going on in gaza (the dead etc)?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

26 Jul

By now, there is enough awareness spread around. Most of the pictures seen the aurah of the brothers and sisters are exposed. Besides, how would you feel if it were done to your relative? I believe it is disrespectful to the dead.

What if a woman had an awful past?? If women is asahmed of past. Is it necessary to aware husband of your past?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

26 Jul

No, by no means! this is a sin to expose her past to her husband (or anyone!) and it is something that Allah covers up. She must keep on repenting about it and ask Allah for His forgiveness.

Sir my cousin found some unknown persons 1100 rupees.Now he is asking what should he do with it,can he give it to bytulmal.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

26 Jul

If it was in a wallet, he should announce that he found something. Lost in the area he found it and whoever gives the description he will give tit to him. After one year, if no one comes forward, he may use it and take it.

I am struggling a lot with my intentions and akhlaaq. I feel like i am arrogant, don’t consider others who might be well ahead of me in deeds as something great, i am too shy to express my love for my family and friends, i do not appreciate others for sth good they may have done, i feel like having jealousy even for my best friend, i always think of people praising me and so on… I don’t want to be like that! I dont want have these thoughts in my mind. It irritates me too much. I try to avoid all these thoughts, make

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

25 Jul

You must surround yourself with or acting righteous Muslims and you must train yourself to being a better person by fighting these thoughts and forcing yourself to do what you don’t want to do!