You must surround yourself with or acting righteous Muslims and you must train yourself to being a better person by fighting these thoughts and forcing yourself to do what you don’t want to do!

I am struggling a lot with my intentions and akhlaaq. I feel like i am arrogant, don’t consider others who might be well ahead of me in deeds as something great, i am too shy to express my love for my family and friends, i do not appreciate others for sth good they may have done, i feel like having jealousy even for my best friend, i always think of people praising me and so on… I don’t want to be like that! I dont want have these thoughts in my mind. It irritates me too much. I try to avoid all these thoughts, make