Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

How to deal with nosy relatives..who ask personal questions all the time and they want to interfere in your life… because i gets really irritating when they try to get personal.

18 Jul

ANSWER: Dodge the questions or ask them personal questions that would make them feel uneasy.

I am from ***** and the govt here is so currpt they impose heavy taxes on us but didn’t use any money on us not a penny which they promise at election.if the govt givivg money under a scheme to build house and we need money for something else can we take money assuming we are taking our money back.

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Halal/Haram Matters, Riba

16 Jul

ANSWER: If its a riba (interest) based loan, this is totally prohibited. It’s not permissible to cheat the government even if they are corrupt as a muslim does not cheat or lie.

We know Allah loves forgiveness but is it mandatory or fard to forgive someone who continuosly hurt you..and continuosly lies to you?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

11 Jul

ANSWER: No, this is not mandatory. However, if you forgive people in this dunya, Allah will forgive your sins on the day of judgement.

When my parents sometimes call me on phone i cant answer always. Sometimes im doing home chores or sometimes im not in the mood. Am i sinful becaouse of this?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of the family

11 Jul

ANSWER: You must pick up the phone and can tell them you will call after sometime.

Is the story of the saint Barsisa who prayed for more than 70 years but died in the state of kufr authentic?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

08 Jul

ANSWER: It’s not authentic but it can be used as a moral story as it is from the tales of bani Israel.

My eyes has tears when I listen to names of Allah, versus of quran or labbaik. Also, my eyes are teary when I look at qaaba. In addition, i get goosbumps. What does that indicate?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

08 Jul

ANSWER: I don’t know! It may mean that you are getting emotional. What counts is what you do after that and how good you are doing what Allah has commanded you and how far you are from sins and what Allah has prohibited.

Is it permissible to say after doing someone a favor that they owe me and later will have to do me a favor

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

06 Jul

ANSWER: This is very cheap and you won’t be rewarded for doing that person a favour. Reminding others of what you had done to them is a major sin.

How should we deal regarding eating food, for example if there’s some units of rice left in a meal , should we eat it so that nothing is left or is it okay to leave it that way

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Halal/Haram Matters

06 Jul

ANSWER: If its only a few grains then you might as well finish off. However if its more and you are already full then it is wrong to force one self to eat more than he needs. It is best to give the extra to a needy person or an animal but if there isn’t […]

Sheikh will I get reward if I pray for other muslim men and women ?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Rewards & Punishments

30 Jun

ANSWER: Yes.

What Should a person focus on at beginning who wants to become a Good practising Muslim ?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

28 Jun

ANSWER: Maintain all his prayers on time, keep away from sins, learn the basics of islam and be a good representative of the deen through his good akhlaq.

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