Character and Morals

Im a helping person but mostly i feel people take advantage of me and start asking from me more. I feel i lend them a hand and they try to pull my arms and feet. My friend says that you should keep helping as you will get reward for it. But i feel that islam doesn’t promote being used either and believes in mutual benefit. Please enlighten on to what extent a person should help and when to say no?

01 Mar

ANSWER: Helping others is one of the greatest deeds , and it is the way to get the help and support from Allah. However, you cannot help people in everything. You can just give them what you are able to give materially and morally without over burdening yourself because this will lead you to stop […]

Youngest sister is in a very horrible situation living a bad lifestyle, to a point now where people come knocking on our door to complain about her and that also puts us in danger, brother and dad can deal with it however they might end up hurting her and end themselves up behind bars and leave behind a family, this situation is out of control and we don’t know what to do?

Character and Morals

19 Feb

ANSWER: If you are in a Muslim country, complain to the Muslim court and have them arrest her and discipline her. If she is in a kafir country, you can’t do anything as this is against their laws and you have no choice but to remind her of Allah and show her how bad this […]

Sheikh in one of ur lectures u talked about the qualities of men to marry, and u said “Jealousy” is one of the things to look at. What kind of jealousy and hw can i as a man implement it for myself?

Character and Morals

06 Feb

ANSWER: It means that you don’t accept your wife or daughters to be exposed in front of men without the full hijab or to get mixed with the opposite gender .

I’m a very soft natured person and I try my best to be the best I can when interacting with people but I always find a person who wrongs me for no simple reason and I can’t control my angers and the decision I make and I’m always suicidal what should I do?

Character and Morals

04 Jan

ANSWER: You should be good to people to seek reward from Allah. What is the test if everyone is nice to us and we are nice to them in return, the test is when they’re mean and we are nice to them. And a person who commits suicide will end up in hellfire forever and […]

dear Sheikh Assim Al-Hakeem Someone said to me in the past my father’s car looks dirty. He is a rich boy who now lives in America (It’s hard for an Egyptian to go to America but he got there because you know he is rich) and yes he is the same one who punched me but thank god I got rid of fear and anger COMPLETELY. I feel envious that someone like him could be rich? how to stop it?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

31 Oct

Praise be to Allaah. What every Muslim is obliged to do, as you mentioned, is to love for his brother what he loves for himself of good things, and to hate for his brother what he hates for himself of bad things. This does not mean that he cannot like for himself what he […]

Alhamdullilah.I become practising 2 and half years ago..I am a medical student and for studying purpose and other activities I maintain a non practising circle..that include gossiping etc.although I try to be concious but almost many times subject are discussed or sentences are uttered not permissible to the religion which is sometimes eeman degrading..now is it permissible to maintain this circle

Character and Morals

04 Oct

No, Look for practicing brothers as you will be raised on the day of judgment with the ones you used to hang out with.

1 year 9 months ago we took a internet connection for 2 years contact. Without our will. We didn’t have any other option for internet that time. Now we are moving from our place.And must leave our place. We ask the company they say if we break the contract we have to pay 2 and half month extra bill as a penalty. Now we left the house with-out Contacting with them. Is it haram.

Character and Morals

03 Oct

A Muslim must abide by what he agreed upon and signed, unless it’s something haram.

Sheikh, How do I increase my love for Allah and His Mesenger?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

02 Oct

By reading about Allah’s Beautiful Names and Attributes and reading the Biography of Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam and by fulfilling all the obligatory acts of worship and abstaining from sins as much as possible.

If I have friends who don’t offer their salah at all. Is it permissible for me to go out with them for pizza or swimming, if I offer my Salah on time?

Character and Morals

01 Oct

You must not take them as friends!

I live in a muslim country but here the customs are even worse than kafir states of the world, especially in educational institutions where co-education is very normal and ambiance is totally against all the rules of islam but only such institutions have a good edu standard, what to do if there are no good edu institutes academically except for co education? Plz shed light on it

Character and Morals

15 Sep

Men are the bread-earners and they are forced to go to such places in order to secure a gold and descent living. Therefore, as long as you fear Allah, lower your gaze, avoid mixing with girls and try your level best to please Allah, you are in the clear in sha Allah.

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