Wa alaikum salam,

As long as this is for her own benefit and good, this is permissible as he is not intending to be disrespectful!

Asalaam Alaikum Sheikh, My husband cares for his mother who is very aged and an invalid. Sometimes she gets stubborn and doesn’t want to eat so he has to be a bit loud and / or firm with her, for her own good, because if she doesn’t eat well, she can’t sleep well due to hunger. Is he wrong for being firm with her? Jazak Allah Kheir. May Allah grant you Jannat Firdous.

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives | June 12, 2016 8:46 am
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My relatives are shia and whenever they meet they embarrass me that i don’t have money and education while they live in Europe with everything life has to offer. Why does Allah degrade me in-front of people who have changed His religion? Is it okay if i cut off ties with them?
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When ever i say something to my parents about islam they dont hear me . there are photo frames in my house , also a fish statue show piece , i told them its haram allah would ask us to put life in them . So my mom was like i didnt hear about till now , so i told her i can show saheeh hadeets she completly ignored me , am scared if i will be also punished , what should i do ?