What we should do,if our father mentally tortures our mother? He becomes a gentle man outside in the society,and than abuses,tonts and much more,for each and every second that he stays in the house. | Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem
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What we should do,if our father mentally tortures our mother? He becomes a gentle man outside in the society,and than abuses,tonts and much more,for each and every second that he stays in the house.

20 Mar

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You must stay out of their business and let your mother handle it. You as his child must be tolerant, obedient and dutiful to both of your parents while anticipating your reward from Allah alone. You can remind him about Allah and advise him when he is in a good mood.

What we should do,if our father mentally tortures our mother? He becomes a gentle man outside in the society,and than abuses,tonts and much more,for each and every second that he stays in the house.

Fiqh of the family | March 20, 2019 9:57 am
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Me and my father built a house over the period of few years. My father’s contribution is maximum. However, now my wife is also planning to help us monetarily from her own money to pay off the debts we accumulated for building the house. So there is no clear bifurcation of who invested how much. How will we calculate inheritance for my sister?

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sheikh my parents are hitting me torturing me my relatives are making fun of me just because i am doing purdah please tell me sheikh what should i do?(in our parties there is seggregation but there are male waitersgair mahram relatives they all always come and sit in female gatherings so i have to do purdah there and when i refuseto go there they force me even hit me to go there)

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