You should do it a week after the child is born as this is the Sunnah. you can do another on in Pakistan after 2 or 3 months and invite people to it. the shaving should be on the 7th day as well.

Sheikh, insha Allah, we are expecting a baby boy in mid-July. We are based in Qatar, and my parents are in Pakistan. My parents’ wish is that we do our child’s aqeeqah with them. Is it permissible to defer the Aqeeqah for 2-3 months, in order to please