ANSWER:
When two roosters meet, there is usually a fight!
You can’t begin a marriage with such pride and arrogance. If they don’t want to call and your family doesn’t want to call, there is nothing wrong in that providing that this won’t affect the couple in their marriage!
Because if the groom is like his family and the bride is like her family, each one believes he has rights over the other, such a marriage would end in a disaster!