You shouldn’t react to anything she says. Just smile and she will eventually stop creating fights as she won’t get any negative response from you. No need to feel hurt, if she doesn’t respond to your Salam, she will be sinning and Allah will appoint an angel to reply to your Salam. Keep on giving Salam and not arguing or replying to her negative comments.

sheikh I live with my mother in law and I try to keep a balance in our relationship although she has her mood swings and loves picking up fights and commenting thins I dislike infact Ishe would not even reply to my salam despite having reminded her several times…It hurt me such that of late I stopped giving her salam as she wouldn’t reply. Am I wrong?

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sheikh i live in joint famly where my mother in law n sistrs ov husband always taunting me fr one thin g anothr n making fun ov me my husband he also taunts me mistreat n my mothr says u have read quran so do its been 4 years now n im fed of my husband he always abuses me n shortly apologize i cnt frgt what he has said plz guid me accord to islam wat to do rep AsAp
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islam says if someone accuses u, u shud clear ur blame like yusuf alaihis salam esp if u are a daee.i am.My mother in law has told horrible lies abt me to my whole inlaws,friends, neighbors.am heart broken. If I write emails to clarify this & tell everyone she lied,am afraid my husband would dislike & SHE will turn more nasty & dangerous.is it necessary i clear blame to everyone?