Sheik, there are times when I don’t listen to my mom. I understand it’s wrong. But everytime my mom tells me that there’s a hadith that children should even drink poison if the mother orders them to. I understand that mother’s status is very high, but is saying all this right?

ANSWER:

No. there is no such hadeeth and it is fabricated and a lie!

There’s no pleasing or obedience to anyone at the cost of disobedience to Allah.

However, you must be diplomatic, respectful and humble towards your parents in all situations while at the same time not compromising on any rulings of Islam.

Sheikh whenever my mother gets upset even for a small thing she could speak ill towards us, hurtful things. How can we stop her from this? Even if we try to tell her nicely if she is not angry or share to her lectures about this it seems that she never changes or realize that we can be hurt whenever she says negative things.She never apologises to us coz for her she’s our mother.

Fiqh of the family | July 7, 2021 11:24 am

Sheik, there are times when I don’t listen to my mom. I understand it’s wrong. But everytime my mom tells me that there’s a hadith that children should even drink poison if the mother orders them to. I understand that mother’s status is very high, but is saying all this right?

Sheik, there are times when I don’t listen to my mom. I understand it’s wrong. But everytime my mom tells me that there’s a hadith that children should even drink poison if the mother orders them to. I understand that mother’s status is very high, but is saying all this right?

My parents are hosting a party for eid and they will make me wear makeup and nice clothing infront of non mehrams. I cannot lock my door and I cannot leave the house so what should I do?

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