If she knows these things and still objects to Allah’s orders, she doesn’t seem to be a real Muslim!
Such rhetoric only comes from full fledge hypocrites who want to confuse others as well.
Avoid this woman after giving her clear warning that what she is doing is an act of apostasy that can’t be tolerated.

one of my close blood relative has started questioning Allah’s orders. she says every thing is based on fear. why should we fear? why should we pray when Allah doesn’t need our prayer? why should we cover our heads when men are not ordered to do so? and so many questions like that. how to ansswer her queries? when we give references from ayats she says she knows these things.