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This is all baseless. When a child dies, a mother can mourn the child for three days and that is it. A widow on the other hand must mourn her husband for 4 months and 10 days.  Clipping the nails and shaving is permissible in all cases.

My question is,do we have islamic rituals that a mourning mother should perform because i heard that she is not allowed to clip her nails or shave. any dalil on that?

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