My parents got divocred years ago and the whole family got in a big fight. My mom raised me, brother and sister alone. I would like to unite the family and both sides made mistakes. I dont no where to start. The contact stopped for almost 15 years. My mom one time stop talking with me when i reached out to a family member and boycotted me. I find no support in my family. | Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem
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  5. My parents got divocred years ago and the whole family got in a big fight. My mom raised me, brother and sister alone. I would like to unite the family and both sides made mistakes. I dont no where to start. The contact stopped for almost 15 years. My mom one time stop talking with me when i reached out to a family member and boycotted me. I find no support in my family.

My parents got divocred years ago and the whole family got in a big fight. My mom raised me, brother and sister alone. I would like to unite the family and both sides made mistakes. I dont no where to start. The contact stopped for almost 15 years. My mom one time stop talking with me when i reached out to a family member and boycotted me. I find no support in my family.

26 Apr

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You must maintain ties of kinship with your father and relatives and not listen to your mother in this regard.

My parents got divocred years ago and the whole family got in a big fight. My mom raised me, brother and sister alone. I would like to unite the family and both sides made mistakes. I dont no where to start. The contact stopped for almost 15 years. My mom one time stop talking with me when i reached out to a family member and boycotted me. I find no support in my family.

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives | April 26, 2018 7:41 am
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Shk,the relatives family stays in v.old home in village,house may come down this monsoon,as cndtn of house is v.bad.He took loan to built new house.my aim is to relieve fm burden of loan.i’m asking again as I couldn’t conclude what to do after reading the reply you sent earlier.kindly pls let me know what can I do.I know I won’t get ajr,I intend to avoid he getting into loan/interest vicious cycle

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What exactly is considered cutting kinship ties? With regards to my relatives, we live our own lives, mind our own business, so we don’t talk much to each other. We have no problems; just have nothing to say. Especially since we’re in different countries, don’t speak the same language, and barely know each other since we never became close. Is this okay?

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