…and that hurts us. We don’t want to settle anything between them anymore for this reason. When we try to talk to our father, he gets upset and when we try to talk to our mother, she gets upset with us. I wanted to ask that only for the reason that they both get upset with us, we have stopped settling things between them. And there is one more thing which I need to ask. I get to either live with my father or my mother. Whom do you think I should live with? I know my mother has more right on me than my father but will that be alright? As I will have to chose between both of them as this is their demand. I will not completely cut off from the other parent but still I think that the parent with whom I will not be living with, will be unhappy and stressed about my decision. What do you suggest for me in the light of religion?
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You should live with the one who would help you more get closer to Allah.