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You must not cross the limits of respect by arguing with her or defending yourself. Allah mandates that you honor, serve, respect, and be dutiful towards her while anticipating your reward from Allah alone. If she backbites, politely remind her that this is not pleasing to Allah and if she insists, leave her company until she talks about something else. You can do this with knowledge, wisdom, diplomacy and good manners.

My mom do good deeds but she tells to everyone.she always do back biting.when I ask her not to do she starts cursing me.and says bad words.sometimes I just listen to her.what should I do?

Backbiting | June 19, 2019 7:14 pm
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If I share an incident that happened between me & my mother in law, what she told me and how I felt about it. Would that be backbiting? if I share about her beliefs and practices she follows that’s not mentioned in quran or hadees is that backbiting? And if I say someone I don’t like certain dish she prepares is that backbiting?
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If I am in the Presence of gheebah and backbiting which is done by my parents and I just listen and remain silent am I sinful for doing so? Even though I detest it in my heart