my mehar is 100,000. pakistani rupees which i will give to my wife. only nikaah is done. now i want to know can i give her gold instead this money in cash. and without telling her or is it necessary? | Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem
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  5. my mehar is 100,000. pakistani rupees which i will give to my wife. only nikaah is done. now i want to know can i give her gold instead this money in cash. and without telling her or is it necessary?

my mehar is 100,000. pakistani rupees which i will give to my wife. only nikaah is done. now i want to know can i give her gold instead this money in cash. and without telling her or is it necessary?

15 Jan

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You must give her whatever the agreement was done on, if she agreed on cash, then you must give her cash as it is solely her right. 

my mehar is 100,000. pakistani rupees which i will give to my wife. only nikaah is done. now i want to know can i give her gold instead this money in cash. and without telling her or is it necessary?

Dowry | January 15, 2018 1:22 am
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My Father-in-law told my husband (we only had a nikkah done) that at the time of rukhsati,i should get dowry or i wont be respected because if a girl comes empty handed to the guys house, its like she didn’t have any respect in her parents house,so they married her off with nothing.Also,the family indirectly fill my husband with bad words about me, what do i do?

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Suppose during aqd nikah mahr is written as 200000 tk, but with the intention that 70000 is obligatory to pay (as husbands capacity is low) and the remaining are optional for the husband, its totally up to him will he pay it or not? Is this type of condition allowed?

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