My husband want to go on hajj with his mother but i am pregnant due at same time of hajj.He wants to leave me & kids with his brother as we staying in a joint family….What should i do? | Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem
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My husband want to go on hajj with his mother but i am pregnant due at same time of hajj.He wants to leave me & kids with his brother as we staying in a joint family….What should i do?

22 Jun

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He should not go leaving you with his brother. His brother is not mahram to you. If his brother has his wife as well, she can break such seclusion. You can also stay at your parent’s house.

 

My husband want to go on hajj with his mother but i am pregnant due at same time of hajj.He wants to leave me & kids with his brother as we staying in a joint family….What should i do?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws | June 22, 2018 3:02 am
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i m nwly maried.Aftr my mariage my parents wanted my inlaws to give thm clthes on eid.when my parents visit my inlaws house,my parents alwys compln about the qlty of food and demnd more respct.Aftr a mnth my parents demand my wife 2 do all the house work.My wife refused and at last I sent my wife to her parents house.I told my parents it’s haram.they cal it culture and curse me if I move out

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i want my future husband(whoever he is) to live in separate house after marriage.this decision should be entirely his own and his family should be supporting this decision.is this too much to ask for?is this demand islamically right?can i reject a proposal if a man doesn’t want to live in separate house?people around me often get amazed and tell me that this is not right…i m from pakistan!!!

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