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You need to be more realistic and logical!

If he is providing for you and he is respectful and tries to make you happy but fails to express his feelings or to say love words for you, this is what most men are alike! 

You must not be ungrateful to Allah and wanting to leave your husband for such reasons as you would be the 1st one to regret it for the rest of your life!

If you were to divorce him, he will marry another wife the following day who is younger, more beautiful and more righteous and practicing. 

You, on the other hand, may not be as lucky as the supply of women out there is far greater than the demand. 

Fear Allah and don’t disgrace your family’s reputation by sinning and obey satan! If you don’t want to stay with him, file for khulu but believe me that you will regret this decision for the rest of your life. 

My husband never shows love, or laughs with me or share any moments as a couple. When he feels like he wants to have sex only then comes to me. Fights are very common. smallest things are blown out of proportion. married for nine years now. I have given up. My heart, shaitaan is lurking it. I am looking for that love, attention, kindness from elsewhere. am scared of sinning. But I feel so empty.

Kind Treatment of Spouses | May 3, 2020 8:47 am
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My husband doesn’t know the duas that we does in salat and he always perform 5 salats on time. When I came to know about this I asked him to study duas and also he doesn’t know ayat ul Kursi etc .Some times we had fight on this topic .I asked him to study and he behaves like he is doing it Only for me and he is not ready to study this but I still forces him .What can i do now ?
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Not daily, but just once after a very tired day, if I ask my husband to massage my feet, am I being disrespectful to him or degrading him? Is it allowed in Islam? Or am I sinful for asking such favors? I have this doubt because of the high status Islam has given a husband over a wife.