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My husband always insist me to do oral sex but I refuse to do so because i frequently used to say names of Allah I don’t want to do such kind of act with the same mouth. Is this account as a sin? or how can I handle this situation?

22 Mar

This is not recommended as it is touching the place of impurity with the mouth or tongue which pronounces the shahada and recites the Quran

My husband always insist me to do oral sex but I refuse to do so because i frequently used to say names of Allah I don’t want to do such kind of act with the same mouth. Is this account as a sin? or how can I handle this situation?

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