If they are poor and needy, they can accept sadaqa; you don’t have to tell them.

my husband alhamdulillah willing to help my parents .. I want to ask can I give sadqa to my parents if they are Syed , is it permissible to give sadqa to Syed, my parent’s denied to take sadqa says it’s not allowed for Syed, does my sadqa count if I gave them and not tell them that it’s sadqa.