Allah the almighty says: “It is not (proper) for the Prophet and those who believe to ask Allâh’s Forgiveness for the Mushrikûn (polytheists, idolaters, pagans, disbelievers in the Oneness of Allâh) even though they be of kin, after it has become clear to them that they are the dwellers of the Fire (because they died in a state of disbelief).”9:113
Also in Saheeh Muslim, the Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam sought the permission from Allah to as Him for forgiveness for his mother but Allah didn’t grant him that permission.
Therefore, you can’t do the things you have mentioned.