Ive a friend whose husband and inlaws go to the mizaars and do sajdah and other shirk. She listens to the scholars that say that its not allowed, but her husband has strictly told her not to listen to him. If she watches his videos, will she be considered disobedient to her husband?other question is that she has two kids and she fears that her inlaws might teach them shirk too. What should she do?
If her husband prostrates to the graves, he is not muslim and she must not continue to live with him in such a marriage as she can’t be married to a non Muslim. She must demand that he denounces this and accepts islam and only prostrate to Allah or divorce him.
A muslim woman can only marry a muslim man.