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The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever pleases Allah by angering the people, Allah will suffice him, but whoever angers Allah by pleasing the people, Allah will leave him to the people.” There is no choice other than obeying Allah, being diplomatic with people but firm and steadfast. At the end of the day, no matter what you do, you won’t be able to please all people. 

I’m in a critical fix where i have to choose ALLAAH over my closest people in life. Obeying ALLAAH will cause their displeasure and i fear losing them. But i also know disobeying ALLAAH will make an ultimate loser. Obeying people include sin. How should i tackle this situation where i keep my duty to ALLAAH and don’t lose closest one, too? But choice must be made no other way out.

Character and Morals | June 8, 2019 10:29 pm
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could you please assist me as how much a person should involve in society social gatherings if there are only women as how much level one can be joyful in a life.people think of me as boring person I don’t enjoy life much they say one cannot live like a Saint one has to involve in these parties.These women gathering where women laugh uncontrably they share weird jokes often I feel a bit strange.
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I have a debt around $490, but the person that I owe this money to is not reachable! I just have his email address, but he is not opening it. I am not sure if he uses it or not. I am very scared, I have heard debt is the worst thing and it prevents heaven for giving you access until debt is paid! I’m so scared, how will I pay the debt? Will the charity money be compensation?