Im a …… married with …… man.its past 1 year and we are visiting my husband parents every weekend,we sleep here al the weekend,in ramadam we remain also 2 weeks.we stay more here then in our house.here i dont have pravicy, my 2 kids dont listen to me, im with hijabb frommorning till night.its normal we visit them so much even they are not sick?im.obligated to come with him every week? | Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem
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  5. Im a …… married with …… man.its past 1 year and we are visiting my husband parents every weekend,we sleep here al the weekend,in ramadam we remain also 2 weeks.we stay more here then in our house.here i dont have pravicy, my 2 kids dont listen to me, im with hijabb frommorning till night.its normal we visit them so much even they are not sick?im.obligated to come with him every week?

Im a …… married with …… man.its past 1 year and we are visiting my husband parents every weekend,we sleep here al the weekend,in ramadam we remain also 2 weeks.we stay more here then in our house.here i dont have pravicy, my 2 kids dont listen to me, im with hijabb frommorning till night.its normal we visit them so much even they are not sick?im.obligated to come with him every week?

11 Mar

ANSWER:

You’re not at all obligated to visit your in laws. 

Your husband can visit them on his own, without you. 

 

Im a …… married with …… man.its past 1 year and we are visiting my husband parents every weekend,we sleep here al the weekend,in ramadam we remain also 2 weeks.we stay more here then in our house.here i dont have pravicy, my 2 kids dont listen to me, im with hijabb frommorning till night.its normal we visit them so much even they are not sick?im.obligated to come with him every week?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws | March 11, 2018 7:24 am
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I am visiting my in laws with my husband.My brother in law lives in the same house.I wear hijab&loose clothing and don’t approach him/ talk to him unless absolutely necessary(very rarely).Sometimes he asks me a question directly regarding kids or something else. Can/how can I answer back?my husband made it clear to his family he doesn’t like non mahram talking to me.

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if a wife do all duties2wards husband’s house,kids n his parents(to co oprate him),but if she shortcums in his parents duties,he scold n mistreat wife by saying that its not her responsibility but if she won’t do it properly,he leaves the job to serve his parents coz he earns for wife n kids n not get tym to serve parents,otgerwise wife is obliged to this duty in his behalf.how correct it is?

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