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You must sincerely repent to Allah while showing deep remorse for this haram relationship and doing the major sin of fornication! It doesn’t please Satan that you ended this and that is why he is doing his level best to get you back to sin and to make you anger Allah more and more so that you and satan would be in the same boat. 

Part of your repentance is to never get back to such sins again. Therefore, if you want Allah’s forgiveness, you must not ever think of that person at all and pray to Allah that He sends you someone who is righteous and practicing as a husband.

I want to marry guy whom I love.we don’t talk anymore.my heart ache when I think he’ll of someone else n I want to marry him but my parents are all against him strictly as we are a rich n he is poor.had a physical relationship with in past but repented n cutoff.but still I want to marry him.what can i do to please Allah to accept my love n make way n ask Allah to make my parent ready for it

Pre-Marital Relations | September 18, 2020 7:38 am
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I m a revert n a born muslim man wnted to marry me!I had a past B4 converting which involved his very close relative!he said it was unacceptable fr him n a girl like me could never be d mother of his kids nd many mre things!he is now engaged to sme1 else1)i have constant thughts abt wht he said to me2)As his life is moving ahead!does it mean that allah is angry on me bcz i seem stuck ever since !
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Sir its nowadays a trend in our country Bangladesh ,that many guys doing their long term affair marriage!my few relative also doing this marriage and engesement. Prob is few of my relative talk to me in such way that i hove done so wrong that i hv not done affair! As if its my inability that i couldn’t.. How to response them? I feel so humiliate!!