This is not a correct marriage. Her guardian (father) must give his consent.

Otherwise, you can’t marry her. You go back and try to convince her father. His approval is the only needed approval from all people.

You must also cut all communications with this girl as this is not permissible for you to talk, chat or send SMS. She is a total stranger to you until the marriage contract is done.

I love someone and I proposed her 2 yrs back and told to my parents too and her and my relatives were ready,but they have taken long time atleast 5 yrs,I can’t live without marriage for many years …. October 10, 2012 – 07:05 — contribute …I am Alhamdulillah, 24 years. Yet, they say me, I am small. I want to fulfill my wishes in a halal way. I tried to explain them but they didn’t listen me. My father had died 10 yrs back.I used to talk to her and used to meet her too,but I can’t able to control myself, so,I went to a head qazi here and did nikah,but,I didn’t have any relationship with her yet,my elders scold me and scold her too but we are living seperate here. What should I do? How can I control myself? Is this marriage correct? I asked here and they told halal,is it? or once again,I have to do nikah?

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